Good luck with your decision, Jamie.

I had a long talk with DSs teacher, I feel a lot better about the whole situation and now feel she will work with me. I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I think a lot of the problem lies in DSs refusal to do work, he's refusing more than I thought, and they're having a hard time placing him because they don't know if he doesn't know or just won't do it. They are willing to meet him where he's at but he is giving them mixed messages about what he can do.