Hi MNMom! so glad u found us. There are so many myths about gifted kids! In fact gifted kids are an incredibly diverse group. There are many many highly gifted kids who become afraid or reluctant to take on challenges. I believe that one common pathway to this kind of perfectionism is when a child spends 'too much' time in educational setting which is far below the child's readiness level. keep reading and posting ....you are welcome here! best wishes grinity

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