I'm so sorry your GD is going through all of that, GM5. It's things like this that made me look for alternate education options before Wolf went to school!

Wolf is doing well. We've been having some focusing problems and refusing to do work, but I've been working with his teacher and I think we've got it sorted out. We've jumped him from 1st grade phonics to 3rd grade and since he loves logic and finished the 2-4 grade book he's getting to move on to the 3-6 grade book. We're still getting to pretest spelling and only do the words he doesn't know (basically we're compacting the book). The thing that has helped the most though is that the unit he's on in math is almost totally new to him so he stays engaged and excited through the whole lesson!