Jamie,

I've been lurking here for awhile but have been reluctant to post (more about why later). But I feel for you so much as we are going through so many of the same things with my GD5. She had a rather rough Pre-K year last year and this year has not been much better. Her teacher is trying to understand her but the administration just has her labeled as a behavior problem and have not been willing to consider her being gifted and bored as a factor. They have never heard of the overexcitabilities (sp?) which GD has in droves. I am her grandmother (my reluctance to post), but I have taken care of her since she was born and she and her mother live with us. Her mom is wonderful with her but has to work weekday afternoons and evenings so I have her every day after school until bedtime. I may post more about GD later to see if anyone has any suggestions. Just know - I feel for you.