Holey smokes Jesse! Thanks for the links on impostor syndrome...I just learned something very valuable that explains a lot about myself there.

HK, I have been following this thread because so much of this sounds like my DD at that age and although I don't have any answers, I sympathize so much with what you have been going through. I made some bad/ignorant assumptions regarding my DD, and she suffered unnecessarily for a long time because of them.

Thankfully for your DD and your family, you are finding helpful answers early.