I don't have any advice either, but I do hope it works out for the best. It sounds like you have so much going on and it must be very hard to work out what the priorities need to be. She obviously has a dedicated family to support her and who have her best interests at heart. You can only do what you can do. I hope you've got some support too. Good luck ((hugs))

"If children have interest, then education will follow" - Arthur C Clarke