Wow-- thank you all SO MUCH. You've given my family such wonderful food for thought on this, and I cannot begin to say thank you enough.

Here's an (amusing) example of how my luck works:

"Living With Intensity" disappeared off my hold list. When I investigated this more fully yesterday (thanks for mentioning the book again, since this is what prompted me to look again), apparently that other bewildered parent needs to read Late, Lost, and Unprepared or something, because the book I was next in line for?

Is MISSING/LOST now.

AUGH!

Ordered the last copy on Amazon this morning. Sheesh.

And no, my name isn't "Murphy" but I can see why you'd ask... wink

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.