HK
I have to say, this so so stressful. Are you getting any breaks?

Do you think he got mad because in a sense he got played? I mean it's okay if she does this stuff to you, but she wouldn't do this to him!

Family dynamics are always fun to begin with, throw in health issues, PG and homeschooling and I think you officially have your hands full.

I haven't BTDT yet, but I have BTDT with the different approaches to parenting and teaching. Maybe the two of them should sit down and figure out what went wrong and why, you know what you would do differently, but maybe some problem solving from them would reframe in a way that you thought having him take the lead would?

Would love to be more helpful!

DeHe