Had to add...this is a make you laugh and brag post :-) We were using a behavior program for DS5 a few weeks ago before his 6th birthday that involved check marks and if he had less than 8 check marks by the end of the week, he got to choose a special activity to do from a list he made. It was the end of the week and he had no check marks at all for the whole week for awesome behavior...so he strolled into the kitchen and said, I can get 8 checkmarks all today and still be able to pick my reward. We changed our program around after that :-)