Hi JJsmom,

As for "bribing" (rewarding) to get the behavior you want-- in our experience rewards that come at home won't work that well. It's much better if the teachers can be on board with positive praise and/or rewards whenever they see the behavior they want to see. Reward delivered on the spot is much better than reward delivered later. And school-delivered rewards/praise for school behavior will be more effective in changing the behavior.

DeeDee