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What is the goal, though?

Material improvement and more wealth?

Status improvement and more whatever lots of status us called?

In my particular case it is nothing more than trying to do everything that I can to best ensure that my DD is set up for as much self actualisation and independence as possible.

I couldn't give a hoot what others think - this is not about a race - I do not need my DD to think that she is better than others at all.

Become what you are