I found it was really hard to get to all the night time stuff when my children were under 6yrs. I keep trying to simplify some things in my life with the kids so it is easier. It is a process and can take time. Hang in there.

Try to look at why something is so hard. When I started with my first baby it was crazy in my house. The toys were taking over then I decided toys are for the playroom only. This has done alot to simplify my life.

If you have a gifted intense kid(S) then it's even harder.