Scan the letter before dropping it off wherever you meant to (nurse's office?), and send an email summarizing the doctor's orders, scan attached, to the nurse, copied to the head nurse, teacher (or teachers, if your daughter goes to other classrooms), and as many people in admin as appropriate (principal for sure, vice principals if you have them, school secretaries if they are the gatekeepers to the nurse's office...).
Have extra copies to attach to IEP once you get there.
If you feel annoyed enough (might want to wait until after talking with the advocate/checking to see if the nurse behaves differently) you could send a letter to the super, cc'd to the school board, expressing your worries about nursing staff that think that their 5mn evaluation of a child they don't know well should trump written doctors' orders. People like this kill children
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Allerg...lergic-reaction-school/story?id=15295949
