Oh, and I am writing the above as if I knew what I was doing, but we are still flailing here, with a complete failure to get the school to do anything for my son. Who does fine academically, but struggles socially. If there is anything between a 1:1 aide (which we will clearly never get) and keeping him in the office during all recesses and lunch breaks (the latest suggestion from the school), we haven't been able to articulate it.