I loved hearing about the giggling and fun at your house! Sounds like you have a resilient and fun kid!

You had mentioned this concern:

>if I can't understand the neuropsych's explanations or recommendations

When you visit the neurologist, you should get answers and recommendations that make sense to you. You deserve them and answering these questions in a crucial part of the np's job!

It may be all new to you, there may be jargon and assumptions about what you know... ask all questions you need to ask. Ask for a written list of recommendations for home and school. Go back and ask again and again until you get the answers you need. If the doc seems rushed, ask for a follow-up appointment to discuss your questions. DeeDee and polarbear had some great suggestions about this earlier in this discussion.

It's a great idea to have Dr. Beljan or someone help coordinate the plans! But I would say that you deserve helpful info from each specialist you see, too!

Sorry I don't have suggestions about the fluorescent lighting or computer choice--someone with more experience in those areas will chime in soon, I bet!

Good luck, take care!