Pemberley, your love of your child comes through so clearly.

I hope, amidst all the tests and worries and research, you are able to just have some fun as a family.

You've mentioned a couple of times feeling guilty about your genetic contribution. Well, here's a pat on the back for the thoughtful, loving approach you are taking to help your child. It sounds like your child has two parents working together with thought and care. Lucky kid!