What would be a reasonable thing for a counselor to do with a 10 yr old then that would help with anxiety and not fitting in at school?

We tried CBT with dd12 when she was 8 b/c she was being bullied and had a lot of anxiety. She felt the same way about it that dd10 does about her current therapy -- like she was being talked down to and asked to "visualize" things that she felt were foolish.

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