I missed the post about the math test idea - I really love the sensitivity the teacher is showing. I hate that Math is 'a race' when it's such a great time to teach kids to work 'slowly and steadily' - good for the teacher.

It sounds like it's time to start shopping for a different counselor, maybe one that will play chess with DD and watch how DD handles tiny bits of real life. Asking a child to be reflective is asking an awful lot.

Best Wishes,
Grinity

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