I just joined the forum but the "buckhead" story is just too close to home. I may be needing that experience.

My DD8 tried to call a friend at home and the Dad said K can't talk right now she's in trouble, don't call back. Does DD hangup? No she proceeds to attempt to question the Dad on exactly what K did to get in trouble. Needless to say the other Dad was fairly rude at this point. Luckily DD could have cared less since she was of course right in her mind. We had to have a talk about that one.