Thanks ColinsMum -
I know that there are wonderful daycares and preschool. And I had to work so I did. Kristen's Mom's setup sounds wonderful too. But what scares me the most was that to anyone's eye back then everything was fine. DS seemed generally happy. The complaints about him was had no context for me - so they were easy to ignore. I was later that I started really feeling the pressure to 'do something about him.'
The best news of all is that every time we got a wake up call, we were able to try things to put DS on a better course. Last year DS was totally able to keep his head down at school and didn't get into a speck of trouble. Right now DS is very successful with authority at his new school. I heard him talking about almost having to break a rule by accident and could hear the gravity of the situation in his voice. The teachers say he is polite and respectful. It was just so much more work than it had to be. Of course- there maybe hidden benefits that we'll only find out about later.
Love and More Love,
Grinity
