I have that problem a little bit. �If you read the beginning of this thread you'll notice at least i'm not the only one who doesn't always take what other people are saying as seriously as they do. �One exception, when someone is being seriously serious I'll take them serious but when it's a little less serious I take other people less seriously than they take themselves. � That's kind of a rude move, i guess. �**

Grinnity has mentioned a kind of peer counseling program that teaches you to listen with your heart (I used to, but I'm out of practice. Got tired of being alone. �Quitting that didn't help). �But it's a couple hundred dollars and you have to have a partner and the closest class to me is two hours away. �I think I'll still try it but maybe after at least one of the kids are in school full time. �I still haven't made up my mind wether to try and go with my hubby or a Sahm friend. �I had thought of a meditation recently connecting brain to heart. �Now that I've typed this I think maybe I need to meditate on using my ears and my heart together. � I tell you I'm having a full scale Dabrowski's moment.. But this one's going in slow-mo and I'm actively participating. �It's a little spookier in slow-mo and I'm still a little blind in the corners. �

**that sentence sounded seriously cheesy and I wonder if it meant what I thought I said.

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