I don't have enough time right now to post - will post tomorrow but just want to say my eyes literally welled up reading his "learn to come to school with a smile." My DS and I really can relate and our hearts are breaking for you both. I tho k you've been great advice but I will read and post more tomorrow. I'm not a very religious person but I am going to pray for you guys b/c this is really upsetting me - my heart hurts for you both.