I just read this and my blood pressure is going up. My child, now 15, had similar issues and we had been told it was hypotonia, then dyspraxia, then finally a connective tissue disorder--Marfan Syndrome. I have been posting on teachers.net the last several days about getting accommodations without a diagnosis after I had friends tell me that homeschooling was just a choice and that I could have kept my son in public school because you can get an IEP and accommodations for just about anything.

You might want to read what teachers on that board told me.