Originally Posted by acs
Sometimes we "push" to get over a hump--"this is too hard--I can't do it." when I *know* he can do it. But then after a limited period time, he is over the hump and then I stop pushing. Hothousing to me is when you never let up and never stop to reevaluate what you are doing and why.

Maybe that's the answer to my question: because I worry that I'm pushing too much and I analyze my motives for pushing, perhpas it means I'm not pushing "wrong."

It at least makes me feel better! smile


Kriston