Originally Posted by newmom21C
I don't see it as any different than a mom writing about her special needs child, or adopted child, or her normal developing child, etc.

It is defining what it special about a child in relationship to developmental milestones especially when they are naturally occurring ones. I understand if you've fought hard for years to get a child to say their first word or take their first step - that's a milestone. But, for most kids these things happen pretty incidentally without a lot of effort. So, it may be worth pondering...how would you feel if today is the last day your daughter seems precocious. How would that change how you talk about her, blog about her, think about her life? What might you focus on instead?