Originally Posted by MsFriz
I've said that many times, but like no5no5 said, it doesn't end there. There are always follow-up questions (why isn't it a good fit?), and you're back to where you started.

That's when with good friends you trust you explain. With those you don't you say some kind of vague thing like "oh gosh all sorts of reasons, but enough about us, how was your vacation..."