He's only 11, so we've got some time to figure it out.
It's good to hear how that worked for you.
It's also great to feel a bit less alone.
You've captured the terror very well!!

My husband is taking him to a week-long camp with my parents next week. They did that last year and he had fun. I'm just always scared and trying to let him grow up and not limit him too much.

It's tough!