Kcab -

Thanks for the input. I put on my big girl pants and emailed his teacher last night. I went through MANY drafts: am I saying too much? Too little? It was a nuerotic seizure of sorts. Not pretty. I erred on the side of minimalism (ie: this is what he can do...not the entire developmental history of my ds) and asked if the screenings would pick up advanced progress and if she had advice for me.

Hoping it's a good start to a conversation instead of "my ds is bored to tears and you need to fix it!". Anxiously awaiting her response.