I think I hothouse and enrich. It is probably a "parenting a 2e kid" thing.

I consider enrichment activities things like watching documentaries, audiobooks, science, nature, art and music camps and programs. These things are of interest to him and don't require any push from us.

The hothousing comes in with addressing 2e issues. If he is asking to play Angry Birds, I might say "Sure, after you sit and read with me a bit" or "You can after you do 3 pages in your HWT workbook" or "Let's work on math facts or sight words first".