Zen Scanner...I would love to just let things go, but that is just not in me! Please tell me then, how do you get your child to do things you want done? Maybe I'm going about this all wrong.
I think if my girls weren't ever told to put their clothes away, take a shower, pick up their rooms, do their homework, etc, I honestly don't think they would ever do it on their own and I'm not their maid, I'm their mother!