Originally Posted by ColinsMum
I'm the one spending time on this website, for example; he just comes to the meetings. It's my choice to be here and I get a lot out of it, but it's time he's spending thinking about his work...

I can SO relate to this.

Someone mentioned the first few years being harder, personally my eldest has only gotten harder and harder to parent. She wakes me up less at night but those practicalities aside she's not easier.

Sorry I don't have anything more insightful than that to add...