But I do have to say--and I think other parents of multiple children will agree--should you have another child, you will discover that you absolutely have enough love and to spare for every one of your children. An additional child does not mean that you now have to divide your love between them--your attention, yes, but not your love--your love will expand to fill the space available.
This, and I don't know a single parent of more than one child who wouldn't agree. IMO, every parent worries about this, and every parent then realizes it's not an issue. Love definitely expands. Personally, I felt like I couldn't possibly imagine what it would be like to have a boy, after only had a girl and of course, BEING one (I did have a slight preference for a girl as my first--no preference for the second, just couldn't imagine it). The idea was just slightly alienating. Now it's like I don't have any idea how I could have thought that.
