Sometimes the best thing we can teach our kids is that it's okay to say to adults "I'm sorry, but I simply don't feel comfortable discussing this with you." Assuming it's a case of the grownups cornering your daughter when she's socializing with their son. Which, fwiw, is just about the height of gaucherie, IMO.

If it's you they're cornering, the same response probably would work, too. Or the ever-popular "why do you ask?" and "I'm sorry, but you seem to be mistaken."

Last edited by eldertree; 08/22/12 05:56 PM.
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