He only has had WISC IV, WIAT III, and WISC V for neuropsych. His processing speed is verrrrrrrrry sloooooooooooow. 21st percentile, low enough to drag down his FSIQ by 30 percentiles. Other than that, nothing noteworthy in neuropsych. He was screened for anxiety and depression at the time he was diagnosed with ADHD. He has seen a psychologist, but it was a massive failure as the psychologist was pushing reward systems on me and DS10 tried to use that to manipulate.
He does not have friends locally, he was social outcast. He has a friend out of town we see twice a month and gets along with cousins (who recently moved out of state). In his own words "I like people, but they don't like me." Very true, his impulsive behavior is offputting to age peers.
Home life is not so great because of constant conflict he instigates.
I get how he's unhappy most the time, but he is causing his own unhappiness. It's so frustrating. I don't think there's anything left I can do about it more than to put him in public school so it's not affecting me and DS2 during the day.
