Originally Posted by Wren
I don't want her to have to rush. And I use the word again. Rush.

I do want her to enjoy being a child as long as possible.

Ren

I don't see why grade skipping = rush. Just because you finish high school when you're say, 16, doesn't mean that you have to go straight to college. Here are options we've tossed out to my eldest:

* Do a year overseas via AFS or one of the other programs for teenagers. Learn a new language or improve the one you already speak! Meet new people! Have fun!

* Get an exotic internship (e.g. marine biology on Andros Island in the Bahamas).

* Focus on that sport/that instrument/your art/whatever.

* Get a part-time job and attend a local community college part-time. Take cool courses that you might not have time for when you're in a four-year college (Ceramics! Astronomy! Biotechnology! History of western Africa!). You might discover that you really want to major in astronomy instead of going the pre-law route.

* Thinking of med school? Do an EMT course and spend some time in an ER and on an ambulance.

* All or some of the above.

To DH and I (and our son) this stuff sounds great and is a universe away from "rushing." For us, it's anti-rushing.

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