Ah yes, I am worried about the future. I also worry, "what will the neighbors think?" without saying it sarcastically like I would before I became a mother. I don't think the book recommended authoritarian parenting, but it did say the parents need to be on the same page. The hubby and I aren't, but we support each others parenting and we're keeping open ongoing conversation about it. Thanks for pointing out that he'll be different in a group setting.

Youth lives by personality, age lives by calculation. -- Aristotle on a calendar