Katelyn, it sounds as though you're doing exactly what you should be doing - providing enough challenge and stimuli for your DD. So forget the 'gifted' tag - it's all a huge continuum anyway, and every single one of us has 'asynchronous development' - i.e. some things are ahead of others in our development. So keep on going what you're doing - just enough to challenge her, yet not frustrate her. She'll let you know!!

And Jool: I think the big question is, is your SON bored or unhappy? That's when you know you DO need to go to bat for him.(And do remember that if you don't go to bat for your child, who wil??) Otherwise, if your child is happy, I agree with the others above that you can take a rest and chill out smile