Frannieandejsmom,

If you are going to have to keep dealing with schools, some advice...start carrying a notepad with you. Jot down whatever the teacher, principal, gifted specialist, etc. says about what will happen for your DCs, and summarize it an a confirmatory e-mail that day. This can really help to get them to hold to what they agreed to, and if they write back clarifying that your understanding was in error, it at least lets you know early on if it is not going to come to pass.

Worst-case scenario, there's always homeschooling... wink