I'm sorry your dd is not having an easy fit with her new teacher. That stinks.
Something I have not seen mentioned on this board before is an easy little online 'test' you can do to help see if attention/brain flexibility are causing an issue with learning. Google "Stroop Test" and you will see a lot of versions online. The basic idea of the "Stroop Effect" is that our brain has to draw upon different areas to distinguish different information: words in one area, colors in a different area, OR visual locations or shapes in a different area.
You may get an idea of how well your dd does with this task which requires her to ignore cetain information (the printed color name) vs the requested information (the color of the PRINT of the word).
There are standardized versions of this test pyschologist's use...but when a layperson is trying to find a direction to look such as your dd who doesn't seem inattentive, you may find it's insightful.
