Wait- does your child's teacher WANT to move grades or are you trying to get her moved?
As far as the color chart goes, it is not what I would choose to have in my classroom, but if the school uses it and accepts it, you really cannot expect it to be banned from the classroom your child is in just because of her. She could be exempt from it, if you insist, but she will still need to be managed behaviorally in the classroom just like the others. If she has huge anxiety just being in the room with the chart, she has to get her severe issues better addressed in therapy and/or through medication. Also, to say she has to be in a class without disruptive children is unrealistic- it is a class full of kids all who may be disruptive from time to time, and this includes your child. Maybe she needs a more specialized setting or a para. Sorry, but you are being unreasonable here. The fact that they are offering a desensitizing program is very nice- the teachers are not required to meet your child or show her around when school is not in session.
