Because the post may reveal an unfamiliarity with mindset, please, PLEASE, puh-leeeez watch the 23 minute video... Teaching a Growth Mindset. It is time well spent.

There is a lot of information presented. If it helps, take notes of key phrases which resonate with you, and the mm:ss in the video where they are presented.

If reading the book mindset, some may be interested in listening along with the audiobook on youtube.

This slideshare presentation, a synthesis of mindset, may also be a helpful introduction to Dweck's book, mindset: the new psychology of success.

This Stanford alumni article, The Effort Effect may also be of interest, and help formulate questions.