Wow, HK, it's just so sad. I really wish there were more options for your DD. maybe this is one way the asynchronous development can help and maybe she can get to the kind of revelatory thinking she needs in a shorter period time. I do hope you find that Gem of a therapist. I don't know where I fall on your spectrum of attitudes about therapy - but having used one to get over a traumatic event - I found it didn't fundamentally change me but gave me the tools to stop the self destructive manner in which I approached thinking about the event, specifically I learned to cut off my endless replay of what went wrong. I learned to not do what was destructive to me. It was very helpful
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