Sorry--my previous post notwithstanding, I really second epoh--if they're acting like this, you and your kid would probably be much better off if you can just switch schools. But it is frustrating if schools are allowed to 'get away' with driving people off like this rather than doing what they are *supposed* to do. But you shouldn't have to be the one to make the sacrifice of fighting unless it is the best thing for you and your family. So sorry you're having to deal with this, and best of luck again.