I think that it would be hard for me to get anything done in regards to moving if I was worrying about DD. I think if ur mommie gut tells u one way or the other to listen to it. If he is dumming himself down that is a long time..... I think teachers who try to get kids to like them can have a hard time. Kids love teachers and people in general. Teachers need to teach to the children noticing each child and going from there. I think that is what will make a child like the teacher. I think kids really want to learn. My two cents good luck.