Doubtfulguest, I have a dd like yours. She is a nutrition freak. She was 3 when we visited Bronx zoo. They have no healthy food so I was trying to feed her grilled cheese and fries. She not only refused, she yelled at me," mom, stop trying to feed me junk food. I am not going to eat." My biggest worry as she starts 3 days of full time school is getting enough calories into her. I started making a list of lunch menu ideas yesterday- basically each meal will have sauteed veggies, raw fruits, nuts or lentils or eggs, rice or bread or pasta and yogurt. For snack, raw veggies and homemade muffins. All stuff that I know she loves and hopefully will eat.