Originally Posted by ACh
Originally Posted by Grinity
2) what if 'enjoying other people' was an academic subject? How would you rate the 'drive,motivation and discipline' you have applied to the subject so far, and do you think it's worthwhile to increase your 'd-m-d' in this subject, and if so, what steps could you take to do so?
Grinity

2 I don't really know how to answer. To be perfectly honest, I feel like I've been run horribly ragged regarding 'enjoying other people', for the most part, and every so often I'm all 'hey, maybe this person has a smart' and then I wind up finding out 'nope, should have kept to myself on that one' because either they're, to be a little euphemistic, off the old wavelength, or worse, they're nuts.

Can you say more about 'been run horribly ragged' - does that mean that you spend a lot of time on the topic? does it mean that your hopes get lifted up and then dashed? Does it mean that you work hard to enjoy the common bonds but run out of energy and crash after the effort? If this were a school subject, would you quit? change majors? Is the loneliness bad enough that it's worth continuing the 'class' even if the results are stinky for now?

((hugs))
Grinity

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