Originally Posted by DeHe
but also how long she will need this school. Everyone here always says don't plan long term because things change but your situation is different - living a part for a year or two with hope of mainstreaming her is very different than if she will need this school long term. Because if this is where she needs to be until she graduates HS, then selling and moving and having DS commute is the only feasible option that keeps the family together. But you don't have to decide that now, you could try the school, make sure it is what you hoped it would be and then relocate.

Very true. My mom once said, "if you hate it, you can quit." Useful to remember as you dive into something big, no matter which option you choose.

DeeDee