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also second the advice to look into a change of schools - even though your ds is happy and has had a good year. You're not having a good year! And your ds is eventually going to see what is going on.

I agree with this. Does your district have open enrollment ? If they do, maybe it is worth it to check the other schools in the district ?

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So should I get the superintendent by cc'ing him on the recent issues? Or should I wait to see how Special Ed Director is... She's been completely silent despite all of the cc's ... I am told she will be attending the upcoming IEP mtg.

Maybe not today, but I would definitely call her within 48 hours of the email if you haven't heard anything. Maybe she is super confused about the emails and is not quite sure how to respond ? I try and give people the benefit of doubt; however, if there is no action or only passivity, I would probably start going higher in the chain.

Also, I think I would definitely edit out your location as well as name references to your child. Not sure if your school is reading here or not, but better to edit those out (for the future).

All the very best, and I hope it all works out.