Hi Dagobbz, I am in a similar boat as you. Our son just turned 7 and had to be pulled out of ps for sensory issues. We "hsed" for last spring. We really didn't do anything. Spontaneously he does his own work, reading, math, etc. His behavior has made leaps and bounds. I worry about the socialization as well. Now that we have the education under wraps and the sensory under control, he is ready to tackle social relationships. I did sign him up for baseball, which completely meets his needs for now. I also plan on signing him up for a class at the Science Museum. They run once a week and possibly swimming year round with other homeschoolers. Would something similar to that work for your son? I heard that if you set the social situations up in environments that are rich with their interests, they are able to cope better and really work on the behaviors. I hope you find something that works. Please keep up posted.