I agree with 'Neato. If you set the boundaries and you're doing it because you think it's what he needs (not merely the path of least resistance), then you're in charge.

You're not giving in as long as you're...not giving in. crazy I know that sounds odd, but I think it's accurate. If you're choosing the path because it's the best one for your child, then it doesn't have to be about power at all, and you're not giving in. You're making a choice.

Just be sure to set the rules and stick to them.

FWIW, I do work very closely with my DS7 when deciding what to learn and how to approach the material. I think that when I respect what he's saying about his preferences, then he responds to me with more respect.

Granted, we have two different kids, but it is something to consider, I think.

Keep talking if it helps! smile

Kriston